Impartial Observation
In order to dissolve a psychological defect or ‘I’, it is necessary to observe impartially. Do not condemn the defect, this will only push it further into the recesses of the mind. Think of them as wary prey, startling or scaring them will only make it harder to observe them. In like fashion, do not justify or trivialize what you see, this will only strengthen the defect.
The trick is to be impartial, neither condemning nor excusing. This is like the parent driving with the children in the car. If you can keep quiet they will forget about you and in talking to each other divulge everything. But the minute you interject they will clam up.
The main objective is to understand how the defect works, what is the mechanism or process in the mind. By remaining impartial we can see and discover much.
When a defect is fully comprehended it will disappear. When there is less ego, more of the Essence can shine through. We become more conscious. Where there was once anger is now only joy. Where there was once impatience is now serenity.
Hence, those who have much will get more. Those who don’t – even what little they have will be taken away.